и иԇռеıܴڂ俼^ҪM(fi)^ĕr(sh)gcСҪͬW(xu)и “R”ķ҂һ!
1.
Ҫfʲô“ ”“ٶ̫”!ÿһƪ һεЧh(yun)h(yun)~~vи }ģMֹÁx}Á (x)Ǖ(hu)°빦!
ǰĜ(zhn)乤ܺ(jin)öC(j)_һ(g)հęnȻͿԜ(zhn)\(yn)(dng)ĴXָˡ(dng)ȻϲgüP ҲȫԼ(x)T^ ĕr(sh)߀혱㾚IPֵٶ(du)(zhn)иϙC(j)ԇnjr(sh)ĴٶҲǷdzЎģ^һeɵÆ!
^̲һλ҂Ŀ(bio)ǰÿԒÿ(g)ֶ_،Ҫ(f)
A. һɱ
ǧfҪһρͼ(dng)Pļ һ ҂΄(w)ӛסеă(ni)Ǔ Ďׂ(g)~ӛҪу(ni) ^ץס(ni)ݴˌ(du)Ԓ֮и زc(din)W(xu)g(sh)vCϿZ;CόеҲHHճô(jin)ԹӛסֻƬZDzI(lng)(hu)ȫƪĴ߉Y(ji)(gu) ĵһ
B.
ڶҪ_ʼ һf һ䌑һ䣬 A(ch)^Ҳ߅ ߅(dng)Ȼ߅ ߅(du) ҪDZ^ߵ“ݔ”“ݔ”ͬr(sh)M(jn)пǷdz(zhn)Ե!(du)(sh)ͬW(xu)f߀ǽh һͣ һ ߲_ĵطԵȥ (dng)Ȼʹõǜ(d)ҵ ƽ_(ti)߀ʹóNĵď(f)xŶ!
C. ˌ(du)ԭ
Kڰһ Xָc(din)ƣ˰?^҂΄(w)߀]أˌ(du)𰸵^ҲdzҪ!҂Ԍ(du)ԭütɫe(cu)ĵطҳԼc(din)——DZy?e(cu)`?߀dž~ƴ©?֮ﲻ(hu)a(b)(du)YˎP(gun)I!
D. ߀]нY(ji)Ŷ~
䌍(sh) CC߀Dz“ե”ϵһ֠I(yng)B(yng)IJT!S xģZZ{(dio)߀^m(x)ֲеZc(din)~RZ֪R(sh)һNի@ø!
2. Pӛvs.X
ڿԇ^oՓ }߀ǾC}е ^ţth(yun)ҪPӛ@λСѸP(gun)ϵ!P(gun)Ӗ(xn)Pӛķ䌍(sh)ܶܶϜһѾCCͲ_!
^ڴҪѴeעPӛmãҲҪ^هŶ?yn)õ ߽^ڹPӛ!eO (active listening)õķ^“eO” (dng)Ⲣӛס Ϣ(g)Ϣc(din)֮gP(gun)ϵ÷^X (x)һ̶Ⱥ߀A(y)y(c)漴 ă(ni)!@ӵ Դ^XӛϢ?yn)Ϣѽ?jng)һ߉[XˣҪӛPӛĵطҲ̓HһЩP(gun)I~~(sh)֮Pӛһ(yu)(sh)֮}r(sh)ھCϿZ͌֜(zhn)f͌r(sh)ʡȥܶxPӛP(gun)ϵĕr(sh)gʡָЧŶ!
ǧfҪ(du)ԼXʧȥ!eO (x)һҲ˦Pӛ~
3.
ƽr(sh)҂ľ(x)oՓ x߀ 䌍(sh)Ǿ һһ䶼Ҫм(x)о˾ ֮һķ ҲǺк̎Ԏڱ^ɵĠB(ti)“ĥ”(dng)Ȼ@(g)“”ָDz}ĿđB(ti)ϱ^pҲfȫ^^́GǷN IJҲҪ҂eOȥ䌍(sh)fú(jin)һc(din)eϾr(sh)J(rn) ЩӰҕϣҪ(x)־ֻǷN“ ” Ԏ҂ZУڲ֪Xо͕(hu)(du)ӢZa(chn)HϤ@ӵDz֪XģһΕr(sh)gҲܿ@M(jn)Ŷ!
и “R”?F(xin)֪ˆ?ϣă(ni)܉?q)ҵČW(xu)(x)!